So.. I’ve been on eharmony for a month and like I said before, I’ve only been on one date so far. My friends are telling me to step it up, so I’m trying.
Something I’m running into is that several of the guys that seem the most interested in me are not in the same area. My range is something like 120 miles so it includes the bay area and Reno. Two of the men I was e-mailing today are from Reno, one is from San Jose.
It’s not a huge distance and it’s definitely doable. But I don’t know how this is supposed to work. Like, how do you have a casual friendly meet when someone has to drive 2 hours? Or do you meet in the middle? Or do you do more phone calls before meeting in these types of situations?? I just don’t know.
There are a few guys in the area that have come up, but I don’t want to focus more on a guy just because of location, if I seem to have more a connection with a guy from further away.
Please, I’m looking for advice here.